Stay with me. This is a question. I’m researching a project I have in mind. . .
Part 1.
While visiting my childhood home, I came across an old, empty journal. The journal was a gift, and I’d thought it so wonderful, I didn’t dare write in its pages. The book is fat (nearly three inches thick), leather bound, with an embossed image of scantily, sheet-clad women holding hands and dancing (you know, sort of Greco-Roman-Barnes and Noble). I think I was around 15 when my parents gave it to me, and I can remember holding it just to savor its weight. The certainty of its objecthood thrilled me. The object, its quality, inspired me. I yearned to fill it with important things, better handwriting, serif-worthy prose. I’d had journals before, but this–you know, this was a JOURNAL.
Part 2.
I don’t think about objects as much now, as I did when I was a kid, and a quick pre-blog bath/brainstorm session led me to the following reasons why.
Reason number 1: “Object” is kind of a bad word–especially if you are sensitive to the female’s ongoing relationship with said word. I’m sure, even if you are not (sensitive to it) you’re familiar with the term “objectification” and all the negative connotations it conjures. But seriously. Pay attention to the next commercial break (or magazine page or billboard or grocery store isle or or or) The female body is ever dismembered (i.e. objectified) for the sake of making a buck or eliciting a quick thrill (in order to make a buck). A woman’s legs. A woman’s belly. A woman’s breasts. No matter how healthy my body-concept, it’s difficult not to feel (sometimes) estranged from certain body “parts”. It’s as if–in the midst of all this objectification– these parts aren’t wholly mine, or a part of the whole–my whole. I have to make a conscious effort to note and deny this aspect of my culture that allows my parts to be so easily marketed and sold (as parts). I have to make a conscious effort to inhabit my body as a body, as a subjective and warm, living and doing entity.
Reason number 2: It’s not exactly christian (in this christian nation) to worship objects. Placing too much importance on material objects is not only seen as foolish but perhaps a bit amoral. People tend to view the materialist as a shallow, greedy person, unconcerned with the things that “really matter.” In fact, I’ve personally heard our society condemned for being too “materialistic.” In his essay, “Images of God,” Alan Watts offers a counter-view:
“For it is strictly incorrect to think of the progressive cultures as materialistic, if the materialist is one who loves concrete materials. No modern city looks as if it were made by people who love material.”
Which brings me to
Reason number 3: Most modern day objects just don’t mean much, anymore. They’re cheap and disposable, if not right away, within a number of years. And the objects that do mean something (the objects that get us excited), mean something because of what they do, not because of how they are made, or what materials that were used to make them.

Though some companies have tapped into our object-lust by creating objects that not only perform but are pleasing in other ways (i.e. visually, tactically), i-anything does not count as an answer.
Part 3 (The Question):
So, the question I want to ask you is, what object gets your heart pumping, for its objecthood, alone, I mean? Please, your comments are welcome!





I consider myself a bibliophile, so I still love books, even though I understand the convenience of an e-reader. I collect Nancy Drew books, in particular, and am struck by the different formats (dust jacket, picture cover, paperback) and different cover art. There is something comforting about being in a room of books.
I also love homemade things. In my apartment, I have two pottery pieces that were made by my sister. I also have a few other things that were bought at local farmer markets.
thanks for responding, Lisa! i agree about the handmade items. i, also, seem to treasure these most.
I have an old Carnival glass bowl. It’s something I have loved the look and feel of since I was a child. I still think it’s beautiful and will sometimes pause and just look at it.
I’m a hard-core thrifter, and I have lots and lots of Things that I love. I feel a little weird sometimes having a whole hobby built around what is essentially shopping, like it indicates that I am materialistic. I like to think that if I had to get rid of everything, I could do it without too much trouble, but I’ve never been put to that test.
I am drawn to old things, particularly ones that were meant to be functional in some way, but are also beautiful (dish towels, lamps, maps). I also like objects which are unusual, and I even have a special place in my heart for things that are extremely tacky (the nice word is kitschy, but let’s face it, it’s tacky).
I know I was supposed to name one thing, but I just have so many. Buying secondhand makes the finding of things feel serendipitous, which also adds to their mystique.
I have collected many romantic and magical memories in various antique shops, “junk” shops, flea markets, etc. In fact, it’s been a while, and I think I’d like to visit some new shops along this vein. I’m not sure if the beach II live on the Outer Banks) has too many of these to offer.
The last piece of clothing my husband wears before going on yet another business trip, is something I touch, smell and even stare at every day until he comes back home again.
Apart from that, I always collect 1 object from every holidays, or big change in life, I take and it always feels like I didn’t choose the object, the object chose me.
Hope this made any sense to you…
Yes, of course it made sense. Both of these examples are so lovely and poetic. Your object collecting reminds me of Jonathan Safran Foer’s Everything is Illuminated. Have you read this book or seen the movie? I bet you would enjoy both. I’m curious: Where do you keep your objects?
It depends on the kind of object it is… Usually they have a way of finding their own place throughout different rooms. But if they happen to be made of paper (like tickets) they are all together inside a pink box that I received from my husband on my first Valentine’s in Ireland.